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They tell women everything under the sun about what to expect for 9 months; why not this?! Scary thoughts are anxiety-driven, they are extremely COMMON, and most new mothers admit that have, at some time, imagined or worried about harm coming to their babies.

The shame of having these thoughts can prevent women from speaking about them. In response to women telling us they feel isolated and ashamed of their thoughts, we asked women to share their scary thoughts in an attempt to help them express these distressing ruminations, so they can get relief and also help other mothers understand how universal this phenomenon is.

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If you are having thoughts of suicide, this should always be taken seriously and we urge you to find someone you trust and let them know how you are feeling. for more information on the nature of scary thoughts. The objective of our speakthesecret campaign is to obliterate the stigma attached to scary thoughts which are so common in new motherhood. Our is an ongoing list of the thoughts that brave women have chosen to share in the hopes of helping women know they are not alone and that having scary thoughts is common during pregnancy and the postpartum period.

We will add thoughts as they are submitted. We do not ask for any identifying information and therefore are unable to contact you. You can at any time if you want to modify or delete your submission. We reserve the right to edit or not include a submission if, for any reason, we feel its content is unsuitable for this forum and are not able to respond to individual clinical or medical concerns.

We may decide to create a meme from your words which may be anonymously posted on various social media platforms. Please keep in mind that t his forum is not a substitute for professional intervention and submitting your scary thought will NOT give you access to treatment. There is no follow-up after you post. If you are worried about the way you feel, we urge you to contact a support person and a qualified healthcare provider. If you need assistance locating a provider who can help you, please us at support postpartumstress.

It will help you feel better. Feel very alone and Isolated. I was scared to walk her my baby.

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I was terrified of becoming those mothers I saw on the news all the time, and I would have nightmares about what everyone would say and do. For the first four months, I was afraid to leave the house because I thought I might. Thoughts that after I am asleep at night, my house will catch fire and we will be burnt. The scariest being able to feel the pain and fear my children will feel when this happens. So I just had my 3rd baby. I never felt this way with my other two kids but I am so afraid of leaving her. I wont let anyone watch her and I havent been away from her once.

Sometimes I think if I leave her she will die and other times I think someone is gonna take her. I cant sleep at night without waking up constantly to check on her or waking up from nightmares that she died… I can distinctly remember my first of many scary thoughts.

My husband was at work and I was home alone with her. I was holding her as I walked back and forth in the living trying to burp her after breastfeeding. It happened again the next day. By day three I was terrified to be left home with her for fear I would act on my thoughts. I was ashamed to tell my family and friends. I knew if I told my obstetrician the police would take my child away. But I had to tell someone. So I told my husband. He reacted calmly and non judgemental. He stayed home from work for 3 days to monitor me. He gave me space and time to breathe.

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The thoughts decreased in frequency and eventually vanished. Now and than I have visions of her being injured but I rebuke the thought and replace it with a positive one. Car accidents… over and over while driving. Had my third baby during the COVID pandemic and just the thought of any of my kids getting sick scares me so much.

I started to have nightmares of my older daughters dying or not being in their beds at night. My baby being cold as ice when I wake up in the morning. My girls are tried of me panicking over them touching their eyes because I automatically think their sick already. When I stress out a lot I get thoughts in my head of vanishing from this world but my kids are the only thing keeping me going. I get so scared if I die who is going to watch over them.

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My mom took off and abandoned myself and my father when I was 4. Needless to say we have a very mild, unattached relationship. Becoming a mother at 37, has been one of the most amazing yet scary things I have ever done more than the average woman I think.

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My daughter 6 months is a high-needs and spirited baby. I love her something fierce but my god some days are so incredibly difficult. I cannot believe I said this. I have two under two and my second pregnancy was horrible and so was my delivery. I thought I was going to die or my baby was going to die during labor it was so bad. I was sleep deprived and getting frustrated I was scared I was going to hurt my. Now things are getting better but the anxiety is still there. Not always natural, sometimes graphic and unrealistic and it gives me instant anxiety and terrifies me.

The other day, the thought of us being at the store and being shot popped in my head. I had so many scary thoughts that felt awful, when I was really poorly with post natal depression I had visions of throwing my baby into a river, pushing the pushchair into an oncoming bus putting a bag over her head.

I had thoughts about doing things to myself when I was admitted to a mother and baby unit my unwanted thoughts really intensified, I visualised drinking the alcohol gel, slitting my wrists with my razor that I had with me stabbing my self with my tweezers. Basically anything that I could see around me I wanted to turn into something to cause me harm. When my daughter goes near a screen window upstairs I picture her pushing it and falling out of the window, smashing onto the pavement and dying. Will they grow to hate me because I had to leave one crying for a little while, while I took care of his brother?

Why is parenting so hard? Why did I have twins? I only wanted one child…I feel blessed but cursed at the same time. How am I going to do this? I love my daughter but my life fell apart after I got pregnant with her, I went broke, failed grad school classes, lost my job, covid19, you name it…. Most days I want to just disappear or drop dead.

I did this for over six months. What if someone takes my baby from me and throws her in a body of water and holds me back from saving her? I never had suicidal thoughts but I fantasized about leaving my husband and kids and disappearing somewhere far away. I honestly thought they would be better off without me. We stayed in a vacation house with my in-laws. The house was built on a hill and had windows near the floor that overlooked a patio far below. If the widows were open I was paranoid my kids would fall through so I kept them closed despite the heat.

No one else seemed very concerned, which made me even more terrified that they would carelessly open a window and my baby would crawl right out. I keep seeing images of myself throwing my crying baby against the wall. I have had visions of sexual things happening to my daughter or to other children. I hope this is true, bcs I still freak out some times. I am super aware if they are in a vulnerable state, and it makes me uncomfortable bcs I know that vulnerable state can be seen as opportunity to a predator. And then that can start a whole train of intrusive, explicit thoughts, like, does she get abused at daycare, etc.

That I will get to overwhelmed with 4 kids ages 7 yrs to 3wks old. Will I take my frustration out on them. Will I psychologically damage them. Will I be too overwhelmed with life that I miss their s of distress and need for love and attention. Will I fail all my kids? What is someone close by hurts them? Who can I trust to babysit?

Will I ever get time for myself if I dont trust anyone? How can we afford this many kids? Together, we will educate many and help reduce the anxiety and stigma. My baby was going to die in the middle of the night and I was going to find her in her crib cold and lifeless. Sleep deprived and overwhelmed, I pictured myself throwing my crying baby down. We stayed in a vacation house with a loft and I kept picturing my toddler daughter flying right over the ledge and smashing onto the floor below. What if someone kidnaps my child and sells her into sex trafficking???

There was a period where everything seemed dangerous or deadly…driving, grapes, sleep, ledges, kidnapping, stairs, cancer, and so on. It was exhausting. After I had my second child, I imagined putting them both in my chest freezer so I could get some sleep. We were walking one day in the neighborhood. I was convinced he was going to fly out of the stroller into the ditch. I was convinced I was going to die on one of the water log rides at an amusement park.

Not my husband who was riding with me. Just me. Same day at the amusement park, convinced he would slide out of my arms, wiggle across the Ferris Wheel basket? The baby being dropped on anything hard — blacktop, concrete, tile, hardwood. It was bad while I was holding the baby but the intrusive thoughts were often worse when someone else was holding the baby over a hard floor.

Knives and other sharp objects were also triggers. Contracting an illness or disease as a result of someone not washing their hands or being hygienic in another way. I had my first during the Ebola outbreak and during flu season. I was very strict about others washing hands, etc. It was extreme, looking back. If I fall asleep the baby will die. I struggle daily with letting the kids out of my sight, literally. I am consumed with who, where, what may or may not be happening while I am out of eyesight.

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I thought that I would leave the baby in the car on a hot day. I thought that if I held the baby in certain ways, with her head resting on my arm, it would only take the slightest movement and it would crush her, or break her neck. A few weeks before my son was born I saw a black crow smack itself against the window outside his soon to be room, this convinced me something bad was going to happen.

I also saw an elderly woman in black walking down my street, saw that as a too like she was a witch After I delivered when he was being weighed and measured I thought to myself that I was dying and that he was going to lose his mother, I told the nurses and they checked my vitals.

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They walked but I kept making them ring me to let me know they were ok.

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